Updated: September 19, 2022
I commit to living and working to a high ethical standard in my life and business. My ethical standards go far beyond my marketing and other things you can observe.
I commit to naming and facing the toxic systems we are all living and participating in, including the resulting trauma, stress, overwhelm, and intense overstimulation.
I commit to recognizing the ongoing oppressive trauma that Black, Brown, Indigenous, and other People of Color face every day – especially women, whether they be LGBTQIA2S+, disabled, fat, trans, etc.
I commit to being anti-racist in every way I know how, to the best that I can do, and doing better every day through my own individual education, practice, and willingness to get it wrong, make corrections, repair, and do better.
I commit to doing all I can to dismantle systems of oppression, privilege, inequity, and hate – which includes capitalism, misogyny, patriarchy, white supremacy, white centricity, nationalism, USA-centrism, heteronormativity, neurotypical focus, anti-fat healthcare, etc.
I commit to courageously speaking about these things openly, naming them when I observe them in myself or others. While I will certainly make mistakes… when I do, I will be willing to learn and be observably accountable. I will also repair to the best of my ability, any harm that I have caused.
I commit to fairly compensating Black and Indigenous Women, or Black Fem labor fairly.
I commit to run my business in a way that acknowledges power dynamics – naming them, respecting them, and working to dismantle unhealthy dynamics in any role with clients or business partners.
I commit to valuing and respecting fully-informed consent and inquiring regularly through relationship to ensure understanding if mutual consent is enthusiastically given, retracted, or withheld – no questions asked.
I commit to a business that is free from manipulation, coercion, or exploitation in its marketing, business and financial practices, and in delivery of services.
I commit to pricing equity through dynamic conversations and flexible price structures.
I believe in living and doing business in alignment with my personal and professional values, which only matters for accountability if you make those values public.
My personal values are: loving-kindness, al-ikhlas integrity, grateful presence, wonderiosity, spirit/ual/ity, bodhi haqiqah wisdom, relationship IQ.
The values of ∞actualinfinity are: Love, Relationship, Justice, Curiosity, Accessibility.