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The Assault of Good Intentions: Boundaries, Consent, and the Wisdom of Not Knowing

When vulnerability meets unchecked advice, good intentions can cause harm. In this raw reflection, I confront a moment of boundary violation in my men’s group, the lessons it revealed about consent, and the deeper wisdom of listening instead of fixing.

Meditation: Meeting the Resistance

A raw, unfiltered meditation born from creative frustration. When banging my head against resistance failed, surrender opened an unexpected doorway. (22 minutes listen time)

Welcome to a Different Way of Being

An invitation to experience a different approach to online business—one that rejects manipulative marketing tactics in favor of creating a digital realm where people are welcomed as whole beings worthy of authentic connection and transformation, not just consumers to be sold to.

Beyond the Acceptable: A Manifesto of Being

A deeply personal manifesto exploring the journey of authentic self-acceptance through 19 principles—from embracing neurodivergence to rejecting societal expectations. A guide to finding wholeness through radical self-compassion, unmasking, and recognizing Love in all experiences.

Stop Trying So Hard: My Perspective on Meditation

A fresh perspective on meditation that moves beyond traditional practices of achieving special states or transcending experience. Instead of efforting to get somewhere, true meditation is about recognizing the awareness that's already here - simply being with what is, allowing everything to arise within our natural state of loving presence.

The Loving Space Beyond My Experience

A vivid dream of dancing and singing contrasts sharply with morning pain, revealing a profound truth: we are not our experiences but the unchanging awareness in which all states arise.

Quicksand & Netflix: Why Movement Advice Might Be Harmful (and what to do instead)

An exploration of why common advice to 'just move' during depression can be harmful, especially for neurodivergent people. Explains how nervous system states differ from moods and offers gentler alternatives that honor the body's protective responses.

The Art of Seeing in Shadow and Light

From darkroom chemicals to digital sliders: a photographer's meditation on finding joy in imperfection. Discover why chasing the perfect outcome might be robbing you of life's richest moments—and how to fall back in love with the sacred art of process.

What Happens After Self-Care? What Eight Years of Practice Revealed

A personal journey from burnout to scheduled self-care weeks to an unexpected discovery: when self-care becomes second nature, true freedom emerges. Learn how building a foundation of daily self-care practices can open the door to greater possibilities.

Matters of Policy & Principle

A passionate articulation of values guiding personal and business relationships, this manifesto explains how aligning resources with like-minded individuals creates more love in the world. The author transparently shares their principles to ensure accountability, provide clarity to visitors, and strengthen authentic connections.

Is It Important to Stand for Something?

I explore why standing against injustice isn't enough in my journey toward healing and connection. Discover why naming what you're FOR is crucial—and surprisingly difficult—when fighting systemic oppression. I also share why our language lacks positive alternatives and how this principle transforms both personal growth and business success.

No, I’m not Fine

Are you tired of saying "I'm fine" when you're anything but? This article explores living authentically between joy and struggle, garden and quicksand. Discover how embracing your full spectrum of experiences transforms everyday existence into something beautifully, gloriously complex.

I Hate (Most) Surprises

Could a simple ringtone transform how you experience unexpected calls? Discover how my autistic brain found unexpected peace in iOS 17's 'Unfold' tone, exploring the broader impact of surprises on neurodivergent lives and the small changes that bring big comfort.

I Believe in Working at the Heart of Issues

You want to tear down the system? I'm with you. But here's the million-dollar question: What rises from the ashes? Dismantling isn't enough, my friends. We need a revolution of the heart. Love. Kindness. Curiosity. These aren't soft - they're nuclear. Ready to build a world that's more than just 'same shit, different clothes'?

There is No Healthy Shame

Are you carrying the weight of toxic shame? Explore why even "healthy shame" is a harmful myth, and discover the crucial differences between shame, remorse, and guilt. Learn how to heal from shame's poison through self-compassion and co-regulation, reclaiming your innate worthiness.

Dear Capitalism, I’m breaking up with you.

Trapped in an abusive relationship with capitalism? Discover one entrepreneur's raw journey from performing monkey to authentic business rebel. Break free from toxic productivity culture and learn how to build a soul-aligned business without sacrificing your true self.

A Purpose that Won’t Let Go

Your purpose isn't hiding in perfection - it's alive in your glorious human contradictions. Follow an intimate exploration of how embracing Divine Love in ALL experiences liberates your authentic self. Find your way home to purpose that holds space for everything.

Marketing on Black Friday is Meant To Disregulate You – Here’s How to Make Better Decisions

Ever felt your pulse quicken at a "LIMITED TIME OFFER"? Your brain is being hijacked. This article exposes how Black Friday marketing deliberately triggers your survival instincts to bypass rational decision-making. Learn practical strategies to recognize manipulation tactics and stay regulated while shopping, preserving both your wallet and wellbeing.

My Heart on Palestine / Israel

What if your heart's wisdom on Palestine and Israel comes from seeing each face as divine? This deeply personal reflection explores the historical context of oppression, decolonization, and the path to true peace. Find resources to navigate grief while honoring our shared humanity.

A Resonant Recipe to Say What You Do

Ever feel trapped in the suffocating box of elevator pitches? Discover the Resonant Recipe—a flexible framework for describing your work that preserves your humanity. Learn to craft a basic statement with interchangeable ingredients that adapt to different audiences while maintaining your authentic voice.

A Supportive Productivity System

Reclaim productivity as a tool for self-care rather than self-exploitation. This article walks you through a refreshing system designed for neurodivergent minds and healing hearts. See how a 5-minute morning practice creates a flexible framework that evolves with you while honoring your unique needs.

Why You Might Feel Blah After Your Business Starts to Work

Ever reached a business milestone only to feel strangely empty inside? Discover why entrepreneurs often experience unexpected "blah" feelings after achieving sustainability. Find out how to prepare your heart and mind for the continuous cycle of growth, prevent burnout, and develop a vision grand enough to sustain your passion beyond mere profitability.

How to Courageously and Safely Request Feedback as a Highly Sensitive Person

Ever felt feedback like a dagger to your soul? For neurodivergent individuals, criticism can trigger profound pain. Discover precise strategies for requesting constructive feedback while protecting your sensitive nature. Learn to separate useful insights from mere opinions and transform vulnerability into strength.

Worthless

"If I can't love myself here—as I am—what makes me think I'll know how to love some other version of myself?" Witness a transformative journey into body acceptance through total vulnerability. Learn how standing fully in your truth can dissolve shame and rebuild the bridge to authentic connection.

Is It Okay If a Man Falls Apart?

What if your emotional collapse isn't weakness but profound strength? This article challenges societal expectations about masculine vulnerability, exploring whether hiding breakdowns from family perpetuates harmful cycles. Discover how embracing our fragmented moments might create deeper safety and model wholeness for those we love.

Is Starting a Business Right for You?

Is entrepreneurship your vessel or your destination? This candid article dismantles the "follow your passion" narrative by separating your calling from the vehicle that delivers it. Through powerful coaching questions and a real-life example, you gain practical wisdom to discern if business ownership aligns with your true purpose and emotional capacity.

4 Supportive Systems to Erase Email Overwhelm

What if your inbox could feel spacious instead of suffocating? This guide reveals four supportive systems that honor both connection and boundaries—dedicated work emails, specialized newsletter apps, Gmail address hacks, and the courage to delete with abandon. Transform overwhelm into intentional engagement on your own terms.

A 5-Step Spiritual Practice to Help Settle Your Heart in a Chaotic World

Your discomfort isn't wrong—it's information. This article walks you through a gentle 5-step practice for finding center when everything feels chaotic. Moving from honest feeling to sacred connection, you'll discover how to fill your cup and discern what small, love-driven action to take next.

Stepping Into Spiritual Practice after Religious or Spiritual Trauma

"You don't need their permission to pray." Follow the journey of a twice-exiled spiritual seeker who transformed religious trauma into profound spiritual wisdom. Learn how to become a "translator of spirit," reclaim your relationship with the Divine, and write your own love story with the sacred.

Do You Know the Sacred Art of the Follow-Up Email?

Ever danced the follow-up tango—wanting to serve but fearing you'll annoy? This guide unveils the sacred art of persistence without pestering. From the Bridge-Builder's Blueprint to the Follow-Up Formula, you'll master the delicate balance of showing up consistently while honoring others' journeys and timeframes. What if the courage to follow up is actually an act of love?

You Don’t Have to Try So Hard

When was the last time you added perfection, approval-seeking, and insecurity to an otherwise simple task? This article reveals a spiritual breakthrough during a crushing depressive episode that taught Steve to stop overstriving. Discover the profound difference between working hard and trying hard, with practical steps to release perfectionism and find ease.

How to Develop Healthy Relationship with your Business

Ever notice how business advice rarely addresses the visceral resistance you feel toward certain tasks? Step into a radical framework for relating to your work through loving awareness. Learn a spiritual practice that replaces shame with compassion, transforming not just your business but your entire approach to life.

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