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there’s a quiet revolution happening in the realm of my coaching and you’re invited.
it’s not about scaling to seven figures, hustling your way to the top, or being some perfect figment of who you imagine yourself to be. it’s about something far more profound:
learning to be in loving relationship with your business, your life, and yourself – exactly as you are, exactly where you are.
some call this radical acceptance.
I call it coming home.
whether you’re a sensitive soul running a small healing practice or a successful financial advisor managing millions (I work with both), the real transformation isn’t about changing the external shape of your business. it’s about revolutionizing your internal landscape – those moment-to-moment choices between harshness and kindness, between pushing and allowing, between resistance and love.
this is sacred work. work that honors all of who you are – the practical and the mystical, the wounded and the wise, the part that needs systems and the part that needs spirit. here, nothing is left out. no piece of you is too much or not enough.
Because when we bring love to our relationship with everything within and around us – real, grounded, clear-eyed love – everything shifts.
Not in grand, Instagram-worthy gestures. But in the quiet moments when you:
This is the revolution. And it happens one compassionate moment at a time.
You’re here because something in your heart resonates with this truth.
Perhaps you:
If you’re nodding your head, lean in closer. I want to tell you something important:
Your sensitivity is not a liability – it’s a source of profound insight.
Your depth is not a drawback – it’s what makes your work meaningful.
Your need for meaning and alignment and wholeness in your work? That’s not asking too much.
These aspects of who you are shape how you move through the world and how you do business. They present real challenges, yes. But with the right support – support that honors all of who you are – they can also become the very foundation of a business that feels both sustainable and sacred.
This isn’t about turning challenges into triumphs or difficulties into gifts. It’s about learning to work with yourself exactly as you are, finding ways forward that honor your limitations, your possibilities, and your needs, while being in service.
where every part of you is welcome – your fears, your dreams, your practical concerns, your spiritual seeking. nothing is too much or too little to bring to our conversations.
drawing from years of experience in business operations, systems, and leadership, I offer concrete strategies that work with your natural rhythms and strengths.
as we address business challenges, we’ll also tend to the deeper questions of meaning, purpose, and authentic expression that arise along the way.
understanding how past experiences shape current patterns, we’ll work together in ways that create safety and allow for genuine transformation.
learning to create structures and rhythms that honor both your practical needs and your deeper values.
this is your operating system that supports everything else you do. every choice is made with your stress response in mind.
a generous amount of compassionate love and kindness is the foundation. this means that your humanity comes first. love also includes strength and power to help you hold to your highly attuned sense of justice, ethics, values, and integrity.
Working together, you receive:
focused attention
regular one-on-one coaching sessions via phone/zoom where we dive deep into whatever is most alive and pressing in your business and life
email / text support
in-between sessions for quick questions, celebrations, or moments when you need a steady hand
audio recordings
of our calls so you can revisit key insights and guidance
dynamic scheduling
a system that makes it easy to book sessions when you most need them; including easy, no-fuss rescheduling when needed
If, after reviewing the elements above and the pricing below, you aren’t sure about which option might be best for you, please reach out with questions. I’m happy to connect and discuss anything that’s unclear.
I believe in creating sustainable, long-term partnerships that allow for deep work and real transformation. my coaching programs are generally ongoing until cancelled, with investment levels that reflect both the depth of support and the long-term nature of our walking together.
*to be clear, a discernment call does not obligate you in any way; when you click on the link, you’ll be taken to a coaching application to help me prepare for the call. you will be invited to book the call after you submit your application.
you don’t have to figure this all out alone. and you don’t have to choose between being successful or living a full life and being your whole, most powerful self.
there is a way to live a meaningful life and/or run a business that honors your sensitivity, your strength, your spirituality, your limitations, your undertainty, your need for sustainability, your uniqueness – everything you are. a way that recognizes that everything – even your struggles, even your doubts – is worthy of more love, not less.
if you’re ready to explore this path, I’m here to walk beside you.
with deep care and respect for your journey,
I wish you more love, not less – all-ways,💜™
Steve Mattus and ∞actualinfinity are anti-racism, support Black Lives Matter Grassroots, AAPI, Indigenous, and LGBTQIA2S+ communities, is pro-Trans, and renounce all forms of violence.
The information in the footer is meant only to inform you of where I stand on issues I consider important. It has no bearing on my qualifications or worthiness as a practitioner or business owner.
∞actualinfinity is located in Shikaakwa – the Algonquin name for Chicago – which is on the traditional unceded homelands of the Ojibwe, Kiikaapoi, Bodéwadmiakiwen (Potawatomi), Myaamia, Hoocak (Ho-Chunk), and Peoria indigenous tribes and people, which was violently stolen and colonized from them.
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