this site is under active construction.  feel free to browse around and see what’s new. expect for things not to work, links to be broken, and design to look wonky on various devices.  thanks for visiting!

articles tagged with

Boundaries

The Assault of Good Intentions: Boundaries, Consent, and the Wisdom of Not Knowing

When vulnerability meets unchecked advice, good intentions can cause harm. In this raw reflection, I confront a moment of boundary violation in my men’s group, the lessons it revealed about consent, and the deeper wisdom of listening instead of fixing.